keep on romancing *

FLIRT and ROMANCE and sex.. What are these things? Well these days i really believe i was born in the wrong country. I hear girls say " mm boys never talk and flirt with us anymore " and guys say " mm girls are too snob here .. so why bother and talk to them ? " .. and this is what is happening here in Greece and specialy in Thessaloniki. Flirt is communication. Communication is education and a social need ! Walking down the street i saw two girls and i said in very polite and cute way " Have a goodnight girls ! " and the answer i got was NOTHING! This is a test i do with my friends a lot these days just to see how a stranger reacts to something this polite and human! I mean ok, we don't know everyone and we don't talk to everyone but can't we say goodnight and share a smile with someone who will hit us with that? Hmm 2/3 girls will not answer when you say something like that and instead they will keep on walking as if they were the queen's daughter. LACK of sexual education! This is what is happening here. Girls are growing up with the thought that " SEX IS BAD!" and " WATCH OUT GUYS .. ALL THEY WANT IS SEX FROM YOU " .. and " WHOEVER TALKS TO YOU , WANTS SEX " .. DAMN! NO ! IT can be COMMUNICATION ! I mean ok let's be honest, we won't talk to someone we don't know IF we don't like what we see and the first impression, good or bad, from someone we just meet is how he looks like. The thing is that NOT every guy that talks to a girl at a bar or in chat machines like facebook or at the beach or even just saying a " goodnight " wants just SEX from this girl! I may see a beautiful woman in the street and i will go give her a smile or talk and this does not mean that i only picture her NAKED in my bed standing in her 4. MAYBE i want to get to know her better! There is a great phrase i heard the other day that says " we are the number of the people we've met in our lives " and It's SO true! What is better than knowing new people, communicating , FLIRTING, Smiling and sharing new thoughts!? It's not always about SEX! and by the way SEX is great ok? WHAT IS WRONG with having sex dude? Have sex but have it with someone that makes you feel comfortable and relaxed! In order to feel comfortable and relaxed you don't have to know someone your whole life, you can meet someone that makes you feel this way from the first time he opens his mouth to talk to you and this is tha magic of the moment! Well ok, i don't mean to have sex with anyone you meet and you feel comfortable with, i'm just saying that if you respect yourself and the other and if there is a good feeling, sex is NOT BAD! Here in Greece there is the tendency for almost anyone to "cover up" the need of having sex under the phrase " in a relationship " and that's why relationships are ruined as quickly as they start. You want to have sex but your friends keep saying that it is bad to be a girl and have sex without any commitment..so what do you do ? YOU just find a guy you barely know and you baptise what is going on with him as a relationship and so it's fine ! You have sex and then suddenly the relationship ends because you understand that you don't FIT with this person for something more serious. A relationship is something that in order to be worth it and succeded, many things should develop nice and deep feeling must be there! Deep feelings come in time and through experiences u live with this person. Romantic relationships are great but only when they are developed right and only when serious feelings are involved! What do we get from this? That it's better for us to start feeling more familiar with our sexual needs and our hormones, start to understand that sex is not bad and its a NEED, start to differentiate sex from the feelings needed to develop a relationship and finaly.. COMMUNICATE and don't be afraid to meet new people! People don't bite.. or ok they don't bite unless they are asked to.. (!) ;) *

THINK NICE - TO FEEL NICE ",